Love is worth more than a "like".
Finding your match is worth more than a split-second click.
It's time to recapture the in-real-life human touch that's been lost in dating.
Enter: When We First...
When our dating experts combined personal matchmaking with technology, we created a game changer.
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Today’s dating sites leave us exhausted and frustrated. While revolutionary 30 years ago, online dating is now archaic. Even the newest dating apps simply aren’t getting us anywhere.
There’s a better way.
We abandon those click-like dopamine hits. We’ve evolved beyond judging by profile pictures alone.
Most importantly, as your personal matchmakers, we end lonely and ineffective dating.
When We First is a collective of experts from the matchmaking, wellness and tech industries. We’re here to ensure true matches are made, each and every time. It’s modern era matchmaking.
It’s time for the digital revolution and matchmaking to collide.
At When We First, we offer innovative in-app technology designed to represent you at your best, instantly. We pair this with real human matchmaking expertise at your fingertips— what we call “The Human Button™.”
We can't wait to meet you.
Get support and advice from real matchmakers and dating experts anytime via "The Human Button".
Be matched on relationship goals, qualities, and lifestyle first and foremost.
Track your dating progress and learn more about yourself along the way.
Best in class recommendations from photographers, wellness gurus, to even astrologists.
Our visual verification ensures you connect with real, genuine people.
Our experts can help you set up your profile, offer tips and best dating strategies, and pick your best photos to make sure you are showcasing your true self.
Whether you're really busy or just not an "app person", you can work directly with one of our coaches and let us do the work, while you do the dating.