Why Join When We First?

Discover meaningful connections thanks innovative and exclusive features, and a more human approach.

At When We First, we go beyond simple swipes and likes to foster genuine connections.
Our platform offers a range of membership options designed to enhance your dating experience. Whether you're looking for complimentary basic features or premium benefits like advanced filters, verified profiles, and personalized coaching, WhenWeFirst provides the tools and support you need to find your ideal match.
Join us to explore, connect, and build meaningful relationships.

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Membership Benefits

When you become a member via app or with our matchmakers, you're welcomed with a range of tools, assistance, and world class expertise.  All of this is done so you can present yourself in the best possible light.

Verified Profiles

Ensure authenticity with photo and identity verification.

Advanced Filters

Refine your search with filters like parental status, education, and politics.

In-Depth Insights

Access detailed analytics on profile views that are all about you.

Premium Matches


Get more daily matches and increase your chances of finding the one.

Guaranteed dates


Upon interview approval, work directly with a matchmaking team.

Personal Coaching and Profile Reviews

Receive tailored advice and tips from professional dating coaches or have us set up or review your current profile and photos.

Let's Replace Likes with Love

When did dating become all about the likes?  You swipe them, collect them, and brag about them.
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But can you easily fall in love with them? And is collecting them even healthy?  
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Love's worth more. It's why we've blended the human touch (matchmaking to some), with technology.  By truly understanding "you" we can find the best matches on your dating journey.  
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Developed by dating experts who see beyond the algorithms, When We First is a different way to date.  
Join the Waitlist to be the first to look beyond the likes.

By clicking "Find A Match" you are consenting to allow When We First to call or use automated or other technology to call, text, email you using the above, including your wireless number if provided, to share information on our services, programs, special offers, and events. Message frequency may vary, messages and data rates may apply. Reply STOP to opt out.
In addition don’t forget to pre-download our app.
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